Hi there :) Thanks so much for your message :D In answer to your first question, I don’t see any problem at all with fuller figured people enjoying themselves, being self confident and also losing weight at the same time, if they so desire. That’s great!
I do support people who wish to reclaim the word “fat”, but at the same time, not everyone (myself included) likes to be called fat because it has had so much stigma surrounding and still has somewhat negative connotations attached to it. It’s great to see people standing tall and reclaiming “fat”, but if one of my friends came up and said “You’re fat, and that’s cool” or something similar I wouldn’t be too impressed. While I don’t like to be called fat, I still support those who are reclaiming the word.
Thank you for your message :)