So, I’ve submitted here before - and I got an amazing response. I may not look like a plus size model, but I’m a healthy size 12 (UK), with a 34DD bust. my thighs touch in the middle, my arms are slightly bingo winged, and my tummy (on most days) is a little bit chubby. When I was in my early teens, every day was a battle with my reflection. Even when I was at my skinniest, a size 10, I still hated my body. A diet didn’t change that, my mind set did. Rather than rejecting every compliment I received, I took it in & stored it away for those days when I felt my lowest.  Today has been a pretty shit day in all honesty. My relationship is the most precious thing to me, and I love my boyfriend - he makes me feel beautiful. But today we had a huge argument before I went to work and I just felt pretty darn shit. But I was waiting on a table of 4 lovely people, all of who were so impressed with my service that they offered me a job! They told me I was bright, I knew how to talk to people & I was extremely professional. That made me realise that I’m not too bothered about how I look. I would much rather somebody see me for my mind than for my body.  I have my shit days, believe me. There are days when I would kill for a beach body, but then there are days when I love my body for what it is. For every scar, dimple, spot and whatever else makes my body mine. Fuck society and it’s rule on beauty. Whatever shape or size, you are all beautiful. :) lovedrugsandsexintheshower.tumblr.com - this is where you’ll find me if you ever feel like a chit chat. big hugs to all the curvy girls out there! <3

So, I’ve submitted here before - and I got an amazing response. I may not look like a plus size model, but I’m a healthy size 12 (UK), with a 34DD bust. my thighs touch in the middle, my arms are slightly bingo winged, and my tummy (on most days) is a little bit chubby. When I was in my early teens, every day was a battle with my reflection. Even when I was at my skinniest, a size 10, I still hated my body. A diet didn’t change that, my mind set did. Rather than rejecting every compliment I received, I took it in & stored it away for those days when I felt my lowest. 

Today has been a pretty shit day in all honesty. My relationship is the most precious thing to me, and I love my boyfriend - he makes me feel beautiful. But today we had a huge argument before I went to work and I just felt pretty darn shit. But I was waiting on a table of 4 lovely people, all of who were so impressed with my service that they offered me a job! They told me I was bright, I knew how to talk to people & I was extremely professional. That made me realise that I’m not too bothered about how I look. I would much rather somebody see me for my mind than for my body. 

I have my shit days, believe me. There are days when I would kill for a beach body, but then there are days when I love my body for what it is. For every scar, dimple, spot and whatever else makes my body mine. Fuck society and it’s rule on beauty. Whatever shape or size, you are all beautiful. :)

lovedrugsandsexintheshower.tumblr.com - this is where you’ll find me if you ever feel like a chit chat. big hugs to all the curvy girls out there! <3