GPC won’t be going anywhere, have no fear :D
Thank you for your sweet message :)
A bother?! Never!!
Firstly, wear what you want to wear and what you feel comfortable in, that’s always something I advise. But if you want to dress your shape, I would go for tops or dresses that are ruched around the bust (to give the illusion of a bigger bust, if you so desire) with flowing or loose fitting fabric around your middle (if you’re wanting to draw attention away from your tummy.)
As for your hips and thighs, I say rock them! Get yourself a pair of high waisted jeans, skinny ones even and a nice pair of heels or flats and show of your curves! Wide hips are awesome :D
Also, lingerie is always a lovely gift for yourself and a nice visual gift for your boyfriend :)
Your boyfriend loves you no matter what, but I understand wanting to look nice, who doesn’t want to look and feel good?
You should also wear your biggest smile and smother yourself in confidence :)
You need to try and avoid thinking like that. It will only upset you.
Your life is long and there are plenty of boys/men around who will love you for who you are. But first, you need to start being more positive about yourself. Why do you hate falling in love? Love is the most divine emotion, it fills you up and it consumes you. You need to allow yourself to be open to accepting it. Let love in. Love yourself and love others. You deserve love. Don’t hate it.
Hello friends of this blog this is the first time I write here, sorry if my English is not so good.
I wanted to share an experience with you, I’m short 1.50 meters and weight 65 kilograms, I’m not so fat or so thin but has always bothered me the size of my breasts and my hips as I consider it too big for my height. A couple of months ago, I was obsessed with losing weight, and be like the girls in magazines or TV. I started gym and diet, and leave a little aside to my boyfriend, did not have much time to spend with my boyfriend. Then he began to spend time with another girl who was his friend. She listened, had fun together. Then I noticed they were too close and found out they were cheating on facebook, my boyfriend told me that nothing ever happened in real life with the girl. I forgive him. But the funny thing is that the girl was 2 times more fat than me. i do not say that like a bad thing, because now i understand that When we hate our body, The hate can be feel by the person who is next to us. Dont lose your time trying to be someone else, life is too short and the People that we love comes and goes
I think the body type “curvy” varies between individuals. If you believe yourself to be curvy, that’s great! That’s your business. Ofttimes though, I have noticed very slender girls referring to themselves as curvy or chubby, I don’t understand that, but it’s the individual’s opinion.
I’m chubby. I call myself chubby and I call myself curvy.
A lot of people like to say that curvy girls and fat girls are two different things, but tbh, it’s the girl in question and what she thinks of herself :)
Have you spoken to your GP? They may be able to suggest an exercise and eating plan for you.
If they do, stick to it as much as you can, but don’t go without food you like, have one day a week where you enjoy the foods you would normally eat (don’t go overboard, but you know what I mean :) ) Use your want for children as your motivation.
Something simple you could try as well is just walking at a steady pace for 30 minutes each day, gradually lengthen the time you walk. You’ll feel good about doing it too :)
I once heard that if you do something for 30 days, it becomes a habit, so take those walks once a day for 30 days, make small changes to your eating habits and stick to that for 30 days :) It’s only 30 days and at the end of it, you will have formed a couple of healthy habits!
Darling, I wish you the best of luck. Remember to stay positive and strong and remind yourself that you are a beautiful person.