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If you’re just starting out in the relationship, it can be hard, but give it time. He already loves your body, as you’ve said, so use this to help yourself love it! It is a little hard, but you will get there. If you want to love your body, just change your mindset instead of saying you don’t like how *random body part* looks, say the opposite, find things about yourself every day that you love about your body and add to it each day. It’s easy once you start loving your body. He already loves the way you look and I doubt very much that that would change if you were to be naked in front of him. If you want to be comfortable around him, work on it and you’ll get there :)
I feel your pain, I really do.
I spoke to my grandmother about this and of all things she suggested personal lubricant… I tried it and it did work, but I’m more a fan of cornstarch powder.
However, when wearing dresses, you can’t always stop and put on some powder wherever you are, but I found a way of stopping it from happening!
I bought some shapewear, the look like a pair of bike shorts, but not as short, the finish about an inch and a half above my knee, so they aren’t noticeable under a dress or skirt. I wore them over stockings (I can’t wear stockings without fear of chafing either) and it was even a warm day and I was out and about for the most part of it and there was not one sign of chafe! I was so pleased. Even if you can’t get ahold of shapewear in that style, I got mine from Kmart for $10-$15, try some bike shorts, they need to be a bit tight so you won’t notice them under a dress or skirt.
I hope this helps!! Good luck! :)
You’re still pretty young, there’s plenty of time :)
You will find someone, there are plenty of men out there who just love a woman with curves, I promise you that!
Here is my success story;
I was 19 when I met my boyfriend, I literally was not looking for a relationship with anyone, and I always say how Mitch (my boyfriend) pretty much fell out of the sky.
We met online and we were talking once and he told me he liked women with a bit more meat (not in so many words) and to be honest I was incredibly surprised, no one I had ever met had said that to me. We started talking more and he asked me out, to which I said yes and eventually we made a date to meet up, I didn’t feel anxious or nervous at all.
When I found him I felt nervous instantly, but I felt something else as well.
We spent all day together and saw a movie. This had cemented the fact that we would be in a relationship with one another.
I was his first girlfriend, and although he’s not my first boyfriend, his love and tenderness has made me forget the petty, meaningless relationships I’d been in.
I had always been extremely self concious of my body, but the longer I spent with him, the more comfortable I was with him, he loved my body, he looked past my scars and imperfections.
I have no problem being completely naked around him.
We’ve been together three years this year, the best and longest relationship I have ever been in. He loves me for who I am and he has made me love my body the way he does.
You will find someone, I never thought I would be so lucky to have a man like Mitch, but trust me, there is someone for everyone :)
24 years old. Don’t know what I weigh, I stopped like two years ago because of eating disorder I’m trying to beat.
A Us size 14.
You are all amazingly beautiful!
Please message me, I’m having trouble finding it >.< Maybe you could email me the link or something!!
Sorry for all the hassle!
Body image is tough. You need to be there for your girlfriend, tell her she’s beautiful in every way and that you love her and her body, tell her that she shouldn’t change and that she isn’t ugly. Everyone has beauty and they need to feel that they are beautiful. Be gentle with her. Maybe look through some lingerie and clothing catalogues together and pick out some nice things. Lingerie will, nine times out of ten, make a woman feel sexy. Just be there for her and encourage her to love the way she looks and that she isn’t ugly.
200lbs of pure beauty ;]
I think we’ve talked about this before. I’m almost certain that if you log out of Tumblr and visit the GPC page to submit it allows you to submit anonymously, as you’re not signed in to Tumblr. Give that a try and see how it goes :)
To the nervous eater - carrot and celery sticks; the crunch is super satisfying and you can munch those bad-boys by the pound.
I’m sure you’re not the only one, I’m almost certain there are plenty of others who know how you feel. It might be beneficial to see your doctor, but maybe try occupying your hands and mind if you get nervous or worried, write it down, or draw something, do anything that will keep your hands and mind active like crosswords or sudoku or something like that :) If that fails, go and speak to your doctor, I’m sure they’ll be able to give you some advice.
I hope this helped :)
Blessed with curves! c:
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This is me. I’m not an “average” girl, I’m no size 2. I love my curves, and for all of you out there who say “curves” is just another word to use to make yourself sound better rather than saying “fat”, screw you. Our society is so blinded by looks. So many girls are obsessed on how they look, not skinny enough, not enough name brand clothing, a broken out face, glasses, their teeth aren’t perfect, whatever they see is different from any model on t.v. It’s just sickening that people find the need to compare theirselves so vastly to others. Everyone is beautiful. What is on the inside shines to the outside, and god I can’t stress enough, who ever puts you down is trying to bring you down to their level. Keep your head up beautiful, because there are people waiting to see you fall. Take pride in what makes you, you. And fuck whoever has something negative to say about it. You are beautiful, and youre better than anyone who tries to bring you down!
That’s great! I love messages like this, they are so lovely. Thank you so much for sharing and I hope you always feel beautiful :)
Firstly,Sorry for the none matching underwear! I wasn’t planning on taking a picture..But then I saw this Tumblr, and I thought if all these other girls have the balls to do it,so should i! I am a uk size 12, I used to be a lot bigger…For example,when I was 19 I was 19stone!! Now,I am 24 and a size 12 which I have been for about 4years now, but I still feel a lot bigger..Therefore I am very body shy…I am going to work on changing that!
My name is Sónia, I’m 23 years old and I’m a cosplayer! I have always struggled with my weight as many of you have but it make a time in my life when I started to simply not care. Instead, I make regular visits to the nutritionist, take blood tests every year and stay healthy rather than trying to be thinner. This picture is my pride and joy and represents the moment when I started feeling beautiful despite my weight. The character is Chun-Li from Street Fighter 4.
new dress i got! i’m excited for the warm weather :]
It’s 3:53pm so I’m late anyhow, but most of you, being that you’re outside Australia, may not be having Easter for a few more hours or something.
Anyhow, Happy Easter to you all, and I hope you all have a great time doing whatever you’re doing, stay safe and enjoy :)
Sometimes I just feel good.