Bullying is a hard obstacle to overcome, but what I suggest is to allow the past be the past and try not to let it impact your current situation and your future.
You have a boyfriend who obviously loves you very much and if he didn’t think you were beautiful, he wouldn’t say so, so that should be one little thing that should help you to love yourself. Don’t make time for hurtful comments that some people tend to make, don’t take them on board, only listen to the positive things people say, that will help you too. Go for a bit of a shop and buy yourself some flattering clothing that makes you feel good, if you feel good, it shows!!
It is a hard road to start to love yourself, but start focussing on things you like about yourself, every day. Even if you’re having a horrible day, just take a look at yourself and think positive, you will find something to love and over time, that one thing will become all of you, but it does take some work, you will get there.
Good luck :)
Here is a link to the lass who made the survey;
I’ll publish this too, so she can answer it for you :)
Why on Earth would you think you’re being superficial and shallow for being attracted to a certain type of man? Everyone is attracted to different things, some of us like muscles, some of us like blondes, some of us like chest hair, we’re all different and we all find different things attractive, that’s part of what makes us who we are :) Saying that, I’m sure that there are plenty of “Gladiator” men that would LOVE you no matter what your body type is! Again, they’re attraction is different to their best mate for example.
It’s alright to be attracted to whatever attracts you, it’s your individuality :)
I never heard back from him, no. I’m so disappointed to because I know it would have made his day to know so many of you beauties wanted to contact him. If I hear anything, I’ll be posting right away!!
Ellie, 25, Size Uk 18
This is me… No make up…No bra, just before bed
A year ago I found Tumblr and the chub loving community…
A year ago I would have never posted a photo like this one…
A year ago I hated my body so much it hurt…
A year ago I was in fact Thinner than I am am currently…
Stop listening to the bullshit Magazines and the Media feed you… you are beautiful at any size, at any shape, at any colour or creed… stop trying to obtain a false perfection and embrace the you that you already are.
Ladies, I just want to say thank you so much for helping so many other women see that it is truly possible to be beautiful at any and every size.
But I would like to see if you ladies could help me out. I need to collect empirical research for a college paper. My thesis is about how the media and society have influenced women, creating dissatisfaction, unhappiness, an increase in eating disorders, and a warped sense that weight appearance signifies health.
The link to the survey is: http://www.eSurveysPro.com/Survey.aspx?id=f6ab80f5-1e05-4273-b3a1-cf03b57a36fe
If you ladies could help me out by completing the survey, I would appreciate it a great deal.
Thanks so much and keep on being beautiful!
I’m so sorry for not posting lately, and for those of you who have submitted and have not yet seen your photos on the page. I went over my download quota for the month (downloading the entire first season of Skins no less) so was unable to access the internet for my laptop. I’m back now and I’m just about to publish all of the lovely submissions I’ve received from you all!!
Hope you’re all doing wonderfully!!
Thank you, lady :) I’m so happy that you’re confident with how you look :D xo
Ich würde gerne mehr über dieses Portal erfahren.
Well thank you :)
High school can be a pretty difficult time for a lot of people, not just girls. But the one piece of advice I can give you is this, and I’m sure you’ve seen me say it a lot, but learn to love your body, with that will come confidence.
Don’t listen to anyone who wants to put you down, no-one has that right.
I know that people saying things like that can be quite hard to take, but just think, you don’t need to try to make people feel like crap to feel good about yourself. Because that’s probably one of the reasons they’re trying to knock you down.
Don’t listen to any insults, I used to laugh when people called me fat or whatever. Because I obviously didn’t already know!! Not that it’s bothered me too much.
Learn to love yourself and watch how quickly your confidence grows, you’ll feel great :)
Thank you for such a lovely message :) I love your idea of body lovespo :)
And I’m glad GPC makes you feel empowered and happier, I love hearing things like this, I love that my blog can make you feel such things :D
I’m sorry to hear that. Whether you’re a size 8 or 28, you shouldn’t feel bad about your body, it’s beautiful.
This blog isn’t about excluding anyone, I have just made a welcoming place for women and men of a larger size to feel comfortable and accepted, when I started using Tumblr all I ever saw was Thinspo blogs and I didn’t agree with them. So I made this blog.
I imagine there are a lot of men and women on Tumblr who have seen many a Thinspo blog and felt uncomfortable and bad about how much they weigh.
Don’t feel bad about your body because of my blog, you shouldn’t feel bad about your body at all.
If you’re still looking for a suit! c:
<3 super cute ones, it’s where I found mine!
Check it out guys :)
Don’t listen to anyone who calls you fat. That’s my advice! No one can dictate to you how you should look, and no one can try to put you down about your weight. I know it’s hard, but hold your head high and try not to let negative comments get you down. Learn to love your body and you will feel better. If you feel as though you’d like to lose weight, that’s fine, but I encourage you not to do it because someone else thinks you should. Being a teenager, this is probably part of puberty hitting (Unless you hit puberty earlier) There’s nothing wrong with being bigger, having big hips and large breasts. Learn to love what you have and you will feel better :) Don’t let people get you down. They have no right to make you feel bad about your body.
I hope this helps :)
That would be jeta92.tumblr.com :)
I am looking for a BANGING swimsuit for spring break! I love the fringe one from Monif C but they are no longer selling them :( Anyone know where to find trendy swimsuits?