I think women need to learn how to talk to themselves without being condescending, rude, hurtful or mean. We say the most disgusting things about ourselves in our minds and then justify it by saying.
" Oh Well, its okay to say it because its true."
What the fuck is that?
All we are doing is putting ourselves down and causing more self-esteem issues.
"Oh but if I say I’m fat and need to lose x amount of lbs, it will make me want to lose them". Yeah, sure. Then, you will fall into the habit of saying it to yourself so while you might lose those x amount of lbs, you never feel like its enough because your mind now believes the shit that you’re telling it and doesn’t know when to stop and show yourself love. Now, you have just started an unhealthy relationship with your own body. Oh, and insecurity issues. Oh, and an inferiority complex. Oh, and then we start talking about other peoples bodies because we do it to ourselves. It may not be aloud but we still do it in our head.
Ladies, there has got to be a better way? There is a better way.
Stop allowing yourself to treat your own-mothafuckin-self like an animal. Stop being mean, stop being hurtful , and stop being condescending to yourself.
And if its hard to stop, ask yourself why, beyond a superficial level, do you believe you deserve to be treated in such a disgusting and rough manner. And when you find out, do your best to heal from it and show yourself the love you deserve.
REAL WOMEN HAVE CURVES
BUT GUESS WHAT PAL
REAL WOMEN HAVE THIGH GAPS
REAL WOMEN DON’T HAVE THIGH GAPS
REAL WOMEN HAVE SMALL CHESTS
REAL WOMEN HAVE LARGE CHESTS
REAL WOMEN HAVE FRECKLES
REAL WOMEN HAVE WRINKLES
REAL WOMEN HAVE STRETCH MARKS
REAL WOMEN HAVE MUSCULAR BUILDS
REAL WOMEN ARE PETITE AND DON’T HAVE CURVES
REAL WOMEN ARE PLUS SIZE AND HAVE CURVES
REAL WOMEN HAVE DISABILITIES
REAL WOMEN EAT AS MUCH AS THEY WANT
REAL WOMEN EAT LOW CALORIE DIETS
REAL WOMEN FART
REAL WOMEN MASTURBATE
REAL WOMEN POOP
REAL WOMEN LOVE
REAL WOMEN BURP
REAL WOMEN HAVE PERIODS
REAL WOMEN DON’T HAVE PERIODS(added by http://spooky-jem-carstairs.tumblr.com)
SOME REAL WOMEN WERE BORN IN THE WRONG GENDERS BODY
REAL WOMEN ARE EVERYWHERE
REAL WOMEN LOOK DIFFERENT FROM OTHER REAL WOMEN
REAL WOMEN ARE HUMAN BEINGS WHO DESERVE TO BE TREATED WITH RESPECT AND DIGNITY NO MATTER WHAT THEY LOOK LIKE
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What I Wore: Thanksgiving in Maine
Ahh, there is nothing like being in my hometown of Portland, Maine. I was so grateful to be able to head up there to celebrate Thanksgiving and this is what I wore!
For this ensemble I threw together a handful of my current favorites, all of which have a leather aspect. The dress is from Asos Curve and is a major must! The tartan and faux leather jacket is via MYNT 1792. I capped the outfit off with my new Torrid boots that I am sure you will be seeing a lot more of on my blog!
Until next time,